5 Simple Reasons Why Your Employee Is Quitting And Losing Their Passion.

Most people quit because of bad bosses. A bad boss will not only kill your passion in whatever that you are doing but he or she may also start to make you feel miserable. I hwanted to write this post and I’ve written it yesterday in LinkedIn and reposting it on my blog.

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It does not matter how much you are worth.

In modern society, there’s so much going on, so much that one is constantly distracted by something. We tend to compare ourselves with others or simply judging others, we do this every single day without realizing how toxic it could be, how much it could do harm to hurt ourselves day by day.

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Simple Act of Kindness

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A simple act of kindness could make someone’s day.

Today, I was feeling a little down, I just reached the airport and in the bus, on the way to the city center.

An Korean granny sat beside me. She gave me a candy and gave me another 2 more candies. She smiled at me and said “It’s from Korea”. I gladly accepted her kindness.

She reminds me of my grandma because of her smell, probably the lotion. I would imagine my grandma to give me some candies to cheer me up and giving me a warmth smile. Maybe it’s the angel she sent for me from heaven.

Strangers had been kind to me, I’m truly grateful for all the encounters I had with each person that offer their kindness to me.

Christmas in Penang

Purge of the moment, I’ve had decided to go out from the city and to another place nearby for Christmas. To do something different.

It was the right choice to go for Christmas Pot Luck & Gift Exchange party. Met lots of awesome people and it was my first time celebrating Christmas with so many people, people who I have not met. It was a great experience, nonetheless.

New Year is just started and we just have to keep on improving and moving forward. I want to have a healthier lifestyle for healthier mental health. There’s so much going on and I am just mentally exhausted. Sometimes, I am just drifting away from almost everyone and sometimes, I just want to meet new people. By meeting people, I wanted to meet people who are genuine. I am so tired of meeting people who only have sexual interests in me, it does not make me feel good – at all.

I want to have a better view of myself from various perspectives, learning how to love myself more.

 

Envy & Jealousy

Envy and jealousy are inevitable but we can manage that green monsters inside us, we could learn how to tame that monsters.

We envy those that are more successful than us (eg. career, family, etc) because we lack of those. It could be positive or negative, depending on how we use “envy“. It is your choice to use it as a motivator to achieve your goals or you let it destruct you into negative emotions.

Jealousy is a threat. A threat not only to you but to the involving parties as well. We feel jealous because we are afraid of losing someone or something important to us, naturally it makes us wanting to protect or to avoid it from happening. If one does not know how to handle a situation well, it could cause pain and anger, resulting to jeopardizing the situation further.

If you feel jealous, give yourself a moment to calm and think. Analyze the situation. Do not feel afraid to talk to your partner about it, let him or her know in a proper manner. Be the master to the monsters inside you.

 

Beauty and Insecurity

Do you have any insecurity? I do. In fact, I have quite a few of it.

The way we were brought up in certain environment and in certain culture plays a role in our lives. When I was little, kids in the school often make fun of me – my name, my slanted small eyes. They would give me nicknames and sang a song about it. People always have something to comment about my appearance. It scarred my confidence and self-esteem so much that I do not even realized it. I do not believe that I am beautiful, I am ugly.

Not very often, someone would compliment me, even if they do, I questioned their honesty. “Maybe, maybe he/she is just trying to make me happy by saying that, I believe it is not true at all” – a voice in my head. Honest and sincere compliments become overwhelming to me. So much I want to believe in it and yet self-doubting about it.

I am also insecure about falling in love again. Fear. The fear of becoming too emotionally attached to someone and losing him again. Part of me wanted to love and to be loved; however, another part of me is pushing it away to protect myself from ordeal. Like a small kid that tasted the blackest coffee and never want to have another sip of it.

Insecurity could come in many forms. All we have to do is to learn how to deal or get rid of it.

It is not easy, in fact, it is never easy but it is worth a try for a happier you.

 

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